Hello. You can call me Blue. This is the story of how I and my wife, Effie, got into the Lifestyle. Ethical non-monogamy, open relationship, swinging, what have you. People like to call it the Lifestyle and I like that.
Blue and Effie are not our real names. We don’t need to be out there like that. If you want to find out who we really are, I suppose it wouldn’t be that difficult to do, but I’m not going to just put it out there for you. Work a little for it if you really want to know. It won’t be that rewarding. The chances that you actually know us are exceedingly small.
But as this is the journey of two particular people in a goo goo lovey marriage who decided to open up their rock-solid relationship to new experiences, I believe it’s worthwhile to let you know a little bit of who we are.
This is the second marriage for both of us, though we were very good friends prior to being divorced. We both went through some things around the same time and now we’re together. Some people didn’t think we should date, but, as I said, we were very good friends. Good friends made for good times and we fell in love hard and fast. The cool thing is over a decade and several children later, we haven’t stopped being in love.
Now that you know a little bit about who we are, I’d suggest you check out our story on how we can around to exploring ethical non-monogamy. It was a rocky road and we fucked up a lot. But through it all, we knew we loved each other, and we’ve come out the other side stronger than before.