Effie went on a date tonight. With a woman.
It wasn’t billed as a date, but I’d be lying if we didn’t both think it might be loaded.
We’re in a strange dynamic at the moment, you see. I should have been writing about this all along, but I suppose there’s no time like the present.
The couple we started our open journey with, Effie is really comfortable with them. She wants to get used to Lifestyle activities with them. Try things out first with them. How far will that go? We’re not really sure. Maybe some more making out first. Maybe a soft swap.
No, who am I kidding? We all know this will end up being a full swap. Probably sooner than later.
Let’s call them Kitty and Don. Honestly, I should have written out our full history already, and as such I should have named them earlier. In fact, once I get to their part in this origin story, I’ll just delete this whole paragraph. (If I remember to.) But for now, this is the first instance of naming our couple. It’s Kitty and Don.
Effie and I first went out with Kitty and Don four weeks ago tomorrow. Don lives a couple hours away, which, on top of everyone having busy lives, complicated our ability to get together with them again despite everyone wanting to. Don told me he thinks Effie is hot. Hell, before he asked if he could kiss her (and I consented), he told me he’d love the opportunity to fuck her one day. He also told me Kitty thinks Effie is hot. I think Effie is hot. Kitty and I already kissed when we first went out, and we kissed again the night we all went out. Effie and I have used them in our dirty talk. She’s mostly talked about Effie, because she really wants to explore her bisexual side.
Effie went so far as to tell me she wants me to fuck Kitty and lick the cum out of her pussy.
Effie is ready to go.
We’ve been talking about this for weeks now. We’ve sent flirty pictures and said flirty things in group chats. More recently, Effie, who’s getting tired of waiting, was pretty straightforward about wanting to get on their calendar. It’s just been difficult.
Effie and Kitty message each other now and then. I think Kitty asked Effie to get together, so they figured tonight would work. I asked Effie what she was going to talk to Kitty about, because sometimes I think she gets worried about being too forward. Feeling too demanding. I encouraged her to be herself, because people love her and Kitty in particular really seems to like authenticity.
Before she left, I gave Effie a kiss on the neck and told her to give that to Kitty for me. She did. She also kissed her some more. I asked how they kissed, and she showed me. It was in a way that I would really have enjoyed watching. Or participating in. Anyway, Effie is a fantastic kisser, and Kitty had really gotten her revved up. If not for it being her lady time, and her being averse to having sex during her lady time, I’m certain she would have ravaged me something crazy. But alas…
Effie did talk frankly about everything though. She talked about how much we want to be with them, how we’d really like it to be an ongoing (though not exclusive, of course) relationship. That we want to be friends and hang out with them, and it didn’t always have to be sex, but for that to come naturally.
They also talked about their attraction to each other and how they had both had some experiences with women, but never in a very comfortably intimate way. It’s something it seems they both want to explore, and it seems pretty clear they’re both willing to explore that together.
Effie also told Kitty how comfortable she is with me and her being involved together. She said she would be fine with the two of us going on a date and even having sex one-on-one. This is a big deal. I mean, obviously it’s a big deal for someone’s wife to be completely okay with her husband having sex with another woman, right? But on top of that, Effie has said she’s not comfortable with me otherwise having solo adventures. But she trusts Kitty enough to feel that if she gave a boundary, it would be respected and not at all pushed. Not that we’re expecting that dynamic, as Don and Kitty are defining themselves as monogamish, but it still says a lot about Effie’s attitude towards Kitty, especially given how threatened she felt by my attraction to her a few months ago.
So they had a loaded talk. There was a lot of honesty, but also sexiness. It seems we’re all aligned in what we would like to happen. We just need Don to get to town. Or Kitty said maybe we could all go visit him sometime. They also talked about maybe going on some trips together. (Although we don’t have the money or total freedom the two of them do.) And parties. And lifestyle events. All kinds of fun things. Honestly, I think Effie is more interested in letting her nascent (although maybe latent is a better word) bisexual side have some room to learn itself than she is in getting more cock. Though that’s not to say she’s not open to hetero fucking too, of course.
It was a really good night though. It wasn’t set up to be a date, per se, but I think we all knew it had the potential to be one. And since my wife got to make out with someone she went out for a dinner and a couple glasses of wine with, I think you could call it a date.